Sunday, December 27, 2015

jesus creates the space for questions: christmas 1


The holy gospel according to Luke (2:41-52)

41Now every year Jesus’ parents went to Jerusalem for the festival of the Passover.
       42And when he was twelve years old,
              they went up as usual for the festival.
       43When the festival was ended and they started to return,
              the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem,
                     but his parents did not know it.
              44Assuming that he was in the group of travelers,
                     they went a day’s journey.
                            Then they started to look for him among their relatives and friends.
                                   45When they did not find him,
                                          they returned to Jerusalem to search for him.
       46After three days they found him in the temple,
              sitting among the teachers,
                     listening to them and asking them questions.
                            47And all who heard him were amazed
                                   at his understanding and his answers.
              48When his parents saw him they were astonished;
                     and his mother said to him,
                            Child, why have you treated us like this?
                                   Look, your father and I have been searching for you
                                          in great anxiety.”
                     49He said to them,
                            “Why were you searching for me?
                                   Did you not know that I must be in my Father’s house?”
                                          50But they did not understand what he said to them.
              51Then he went down with them and came to Nazareth,
                     and was obedient to them.
                            His mother treasured all these things in her heart.
                            52And Jesus increased in wisdom and in years,
                                   and in divine and human favor.

The gospel of the lord.

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I can just imagine Mary in today’s gospel.  Though it was just this last week for us, it started so long ago for her.  Over 12 years, in fact.  A visit from an angel, which changed her life forever.  A baby?  Her?  A young teenager herself—not too much older than Jesus in today’s gospel, and she encounters an angel who calls her “favored” and begins to stir up deep feelings of unsettlement within her.  Things begin to change and as she ponders the angel’s greeting and promise, she takes a leap of faith, trusting the angel and trusting God.  And a fluttering begins deep inside.

As the baby grows, she travels to visit her cousin Elizabeth, who confirms the Holy Spirit’s work in and through Mary.  It is then that Mary finds herself situated among her foremothers—the women who have come before her, bearing gifts from God in their wombs.  She echoes Hannah’s song in her own magnificat—praising God for the work already done and still in progress, her soul magnifies, her spirit rejoices in God her savior.

Mary remains with her older cousin through Elizabeth’s third trimester, finding companionship with another one chosen by God, another one bearing a gift of the Holy Spirit.  And when she returns, the narrative we are so familiar with begins:  the decree from Emperor Augustus: a registration—a journey to Bethlehem—the city of Joseph’s ancestor David.  Bethlehem is filled to the brim—no room for anyone.  So they join the animals, finding hospitality in the warm, if dirty, stable.

Waiting in Bethlehem through the registration, Mary’s time eventually comes.  Surrounded by straw and animals, Mary gives birth to a child.  As she and the baby Jesus fade in and out of sleeping, eating, and watching, the night sky lights up.  Angels appear far off in the fields—bright as the star shining above and before too long these young shepherd boys show up, still glowing in the light of the angels—radiant with hope for Mary’s star-child, her peace child, the one who is the Messiah, the Lord.

Through the exhaustion of having given birth, Mary absorbs the visit from these strange boys and stores it away with the bright light of the star above her, pondering what it all means.

Then as Jesus grows a bit and begins trying to toddle around, more strangers appear—this time from the East bringing gifts!  

But what could Mary have thought when these gifts came?  She knows that Jesus is special—and not just because he’s her precious child, but now these strangers from so far away are bringing gold and frankincense—so fragrant!  They may not be great for a toddler, but truly these are gifts for a king!  The third gift, though…it’s different.  Myrrh is used to anoint people for burial.  Why are they bringing him myrrh?

And then the memory comes back of an old man—Simeon was his name—blessing Jesus when they brought him to the Temple to be circumcised.  Simeon had blessed them all and then turned to Mary and said, “This child is destined for the falling and the rising of many in Israel, and to be a sign that will be opposed so that the inner thoughts of many will be revealed—and a sword will pierce your own soul too.” 

Twice now Mary has received hints at terrible pain to come—but what and when can it be?  Surely Jesus won’t die anytime soon!  But these strangers say that Herod knows of him and means to do him harm.  His life is in danger!

And so the holy family flees, heading to Egypt as refugees where Jesus begins to walk and talk, until it is safe to return.  And they decide to settle back in Nazareth, where Jesus grows into his own and Mary, watching him, sees the deep wisdom, compassion, and wonder in eyes too old for his young body.

Then when Jesus is 12, as they’ve done every year, they go to the Temple for Passover.  All seems normal—until they head home.  When Mary and Joseph realize Jesus is not with them, they race back to Jerusalem and the image of myrrh floats behind Mary’s eyes as Simeon’s words echo in her ears, “a sword will pierce your own soul too.”  Is this the time?  Will he be lost forever?  Will she finally have a use for the myrrh she has held onto all these years?

As they search frantically throughout the city, Mary’s anxiety builds.  After three days, a period of time that will come back to haunt Mary when she ponders Jesus’ life, three days, and he’s in the Temple.  In her exasperation and relief, Mary scolds Jesus, “Child, why have you treated us like this? Look, your father and I have been searching for you in great anxiety.”

Confused, Jesus asks, “Why were you searching for me? Did you not know that I must be in my father’s house?”—but what does he mean?  He’s always asking these questions, …but Joseph is his father…until the angel pops into Mary’s memory, proclaiming God’s favor, bringing her the choice of a baby.

And all of this, Mary continues to store away.  She holds all of these pieces; mixing the memories around, pondering deeply what meaning they hold.  Sitting with the memories, she puts them side by side, rearranges, and meditates on them, trying to make sense of a jumble of feelings and thoughts and memories all vying for attention, all trying to be the most important. 

As she looks at her child, so close to the age she was when she gave birth to him, she wonders, How do all of these things connect?  What sort of future is in store for her precious child?  All these people and things are so different; what do they mean?

As we come down off of our own sugar and food-induced comas of Christmas, we are left with this strange reality.  God comes to us—this boy king, star-child.  We know what is to come and yet we now have space, this first Sunday of Christmas and this week between holidays, to sit with Mary and ponder. 

The memories can get jumbled.  The phrases and theology we have come to know so well we no longer question it, collide, so we look at them one by one, deeply pondering the questions that come when we experience God with us. 

What does it mean?  How do we live now, with Jesus in the world?  Who is Jesus in this world?  Will our souls be pierced as well?  Have they been already?  From the start, Jesus is headed to the cross.  Where are we?  How do we fit in with it all?  This community of faith is the space—the space to sit with deep questions—knowing we don’t have all the answers.  What are your questions?  How do you ponder these mysteries of faith?  To whom do you ask your questions?

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