Sunday, December 30, 2012

jesus surprises us: 1st sunday of christmas


the other scripture for the day were:

the holy gospel according to luke, the 2nd chapter.  glory to you, o lord.

41Now every year Jesus’ parents went to Jerusalem for the festival of the Passover. 42And when he was twelve years old, they went up as usual for the festival. 43When the festival was ended and they started to return, the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem, but his parents did not know it. 44Assuming that he was in the group of travelers, they went a day’s journey.

Then they started to look for him among their relatives and friends. 45When they did not find him, they returned to Jerusalem to search for him. 46After three days they found him in the temple, sitting among the teachers, listening to them and asking them questions. 47And all who heard him were amazed at his understanding and his answers. 48When his parents saw him they were astonished; and his mother said to him, “Child, why have you treated us like this? Look, your father and I have been searching for you in great anxiety.” 49He said to them, “Why were you searching for me? Did you not know that I must be in my Father’s house?” 50But they did not understand what he said to them. 51Then he went down with them and came to Nazareth, and was obedient to them. His mother treasured all these things in her heart. 52And Jesus increased in wisdom and in years, and in divine and human favor.

the gospel of the lord.  praise to you, o christ.

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this week i went to see the movie rise of the guardians with some friends.  rise of the guardians is about the guardians of childhood: santa claus, the easter bunny, the tooth fairy, the sandman, and jack frost, protecting children and childhood from the boogie man.  

at the end of the movie, a child behind me said to his adult caregiver, “but jack frost has to be real, or where does all the frost come from?”  again on the way out of the theater, the child clarified that, “there’s only one big foot.”  to which the man responded, “i don’t know…there were a lot in the movie.”  making eye-contact with the child, i replied to his statement with, “true story,” affirming what the child had said.  as we walked away i heard the child exclaim to the man, “see!  somebody over there said, ‘true story!’”

not having any of my own, for me children are, in general, full of surprises.  one of my favorite things when i talk with children is to learn how their thought process works.  even when it’s not what i would come up with, it’s usually very clearly logical—jack frost must exist, or where does frost come from?  these conversations always seem to give me something to treasure in my own heart. 


the child that is so convinced about jack frost and big foot surprised me with his logic and brought me back to the fun and wonder of being a child.

in our gospel reading today, jesus also            surprises the grown-ups with his questions and observations.  those gathered in the temple are surprised and mary and joseph are very clearly surprised—after all, it took three days of searching before they thought to look in the temple! 

where were they searching in those three days?  what made them finally decide to check the temple?  did it take all three days to get through their list of family and friends in jerusalem?  were they simply heading to the temple to pray, having exhausted all options and hope? 

although it was just a few days ago that we experienced the angels with the shepherds and jesus’ birth, i have to wonder if mary and joseph have forgotten who jesus really is.  has so much time passed since the angels came to them and the shepherds that they’ve returned to the “normalcy” of raising a child and all that that entails and forgotten that this child is also god incarnate—god-in-the-flesh?

were the expectations raised so high at the beginning with the angels and the shepherds that the normalcy of raising a child—the dirty diapers, constant hunger, and lack of sleep—overtook the wonder and joy of god incarnate?  here, we encounter the holy family when jesus is still a child, being good and faithful, following through on the rites and rituals of their faith, yet perhaps forgetting the mystery of their child.

after 12 years without an angelic appearance, it’s understandable that they’ve lowered their expectations for what it means to be jesus’ caretakers.  being parents has become normal, perhaps delightfully so, perhaps not.  so, when jesus turns 12, they make their usual pilgrimage to jerusalem for the passover festival and are jerked back to the reality of having a child who is nothing like any other, who surprises them with his logic and brings them back to the bafflement of raising the child of god.

when they finally do find him and lay the parental guilt down, saying, “child, why have you treated us like this?  look, your father and i have been searching for you in great anxiety.”  jesus clearly points out that he has a higher authority to answer to than mary and joseph.  he makes clear to them that there was only ever one thing he could be doing.

theologian john petty points out that in the greek, jesus’ explanation is far more interesting.  using language of divine imperative, jesus says that he must be about his father’s business. the word “house” is not in the text in greek, but instead it is understood that the english fill-in could be house, or it could more likely be business, things, or interests.  so, jesus explains to his parents, “of course i was here; i had to be here, being about my father’s business.”

and what is his father’s business?  for 12-year-old jesus it’s listening and questioning                         and in that it is surprising.  jesus surprises his parents and the local scholars by listening and engaging them in conversation, but even more profoundly, he surprises them by being in the temple and being about his father’s business.

jesus does what no other 12-year-old would—he leaves his parents not to run away, but to recognize the higher authority on which he is to act.  he has a mission and in the first words jesus says in the gospel of luke, he sets the tone for his whole ministry in the gospel: he is to be about his father’s business first and foremost.  this business is surprising in that it entails engaging people—listening, questioning, answering, and surprising.

but this is not the first surprise.  years and years earlier god surprised hannah by bringing her a son, whom she named samuel.  and years and years after that, yet still so many years ago god surprised mary and joseph and the world by coming in the form of a baby to be god-with-us, immanuel.

jesus surprises the teachers with his understanding and answers, while he listens and questions in the temple.
jesus surprises his parents by being in the temple, not with them on the way back from jerusalem.
jesus surprises us by following a higher authority—god’s authority—rather than our own human authorities.
jesus surprises all those around him throughout his life and ministry. 
and ultimately, jesus surprises us all by taking all the hatred and violence of the world into himself and responding with life!                          resurrection! 

and since then, he has continued to surprise people throughout the ages.  i asked some of my friends how jesus surprises them and i got responses ranging from “everything about jesus surprises me” to “nothing really surprises me about jesus anymore.”  it got me thinking, though, about the ways that jesus can surprise us all today.

jesus surprises us in the welcome feast at the table each sunday where each broken person comes to be fed by the body that is broken for all, where jesus breaks into our worship with forgiveness, life, and nourishment.

jesus surprises us with the children in our lives who ask tough questions, who are confident in their logic, who are more insightful and observant than we might give them credit for being, and who put things into new perspectives.

jesus surprises us by coming to engage with us—to come as god incarnate—god-in-the-flesh—to be flesh with us.  and each week when god comes to us in jesus we get to join with mary and “treasure all these things in our hearts,” “letting the peace of christ rule in our hearts—and letting the word of christ dwell in us (richly)” through word and sacrament.

jesus surprises some by providing a free roof over their head even as they are immersed in a culture of independence that says it can’t be so.
jesus surprises some in a prayer shawl received for the day they come out to loved ones.
jesus surprises me with moments of grace and joy that quickly follow tearful moments of complete frustration and loss.
jesus surprises some with hugs that both huggers desperately need, even if they can’t always ask for them.
jesus surprises some in the faces of patients and friends waiting for care, for comfort, for god
jesus surprises us in the lives of those with whom we are angry or frustrated


mr. rogers once said, “when i was a boy and i would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, ‘look for the helpers. you will always find people who are helping.’”  maybe jesus surprises us when we follow mr. rogers’ mom’s advice and we see the helpers in a given situation: the teachers, the firefighters, the police officers, the parents, the friends, the children, the strangers.  maybe that is how jesus surprises us. 
  
jesus surprises some when he glows in our darkness, in victoria soto, a teacher who saved lives with hers, in first responders who run into the situation when others run out.
jesus surprises me by making me uncomfortable, by pushing me.
jesus surprises some by showing up over and over again, sometimes by coming out of hiding, sometimes when reflecting back on a situation, and sometimes in that very moment.

how does jesus surprise you?  does he challenge you?  does he push you beyond your comfort zone?  does he comfort you?  does he surprise you by loving you?  

how does jesus, this god incarnate, immanuel, surprise you?  

and how will he surprise you this week?

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